It's Not Easy To Be A Man Too...

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Pawan Karthik
Jun 11, 2019   •  38 views

The eternal debate about whether man or woman is superior makes me feel uncomfortable.

From serious points like, ' God couldn't be available all the time,so he created mother' to not so serious ' Yeah, giving birth is painful but getting kicked in the balls is more painful'.

I witnessed a pretty matured debate between so-called feminists and a group of boys, which went like this...

" Why do you boys keep staring at women as if we are some objects only made for you?"

" If we wear cultural clothes, society calls us old fashioned, If we wear modern clothes, they call us sluts".

" Do you even know how difficult giving birth to a person is?"

" Will boys be able to survive menstruating 5 days a week?"

" Even though they say that they are not sexists, most of the companies have a vast difference between the number of males and females working in their company".

Listening to all these statements, a man stood up, agreed that the staring's got to stop and asked someone to tell him why girls want equal rights but not duties?

The women were offended and asked him to explain.

"Why are there very few or no women at all in the fields like underground mining, defense forces and more fields where intense physical efforts are required. And at the same time, you are given more rights to sit in public transport."

"Because most of the women are not biologically as strong as men, God made us like that. What are we supposed to do?", came the obvious answer.

He requested everyone's silence for the next few minutes as he continued, " So you do accept that women are a bit weaker than men on an average and are tended to be more on the emotional side. Likewise, what if men say that are tended to be stupid and tended to get attracted, stare at women without thinking that they are making women uncomfortable? Can't argue with what God has made right?".

"Not all men are like that", said a lady.

" Not all men are stronger than women too", he made his point.

" If a boy cries, he is considered as a weaker person but if he doesn't cry, he's stone-hearted.

If he stares at women, he's a pervert and if he doesn't he's a gay.

If he is an extrovert, outgoing person, he's a flirt, irresponsible, If he just sits at home, he's considered as a loser with no friends.

Let me explain a situation when a 25-year-old woman is unemployed, sub-consciously, the relatives, parents, society together accepts the fact that she can just marry and be settled, so they don't pressurize the lady. But when its a guy, unemployed at age of 25, all sorts of pressure keeps getting added to his daily life...", he was about to complete when interrupted by a girl,

" It's not about the external pressures sir, it's our internal desire to get employed. We do things for us, not for the society", gets applauded until,

" Then why are you so worried about what society tells about your dressing style?", comes the reply.

"And yes, giving birth is difficult, being pregnant is tough, but being with a tantrum throwing, mood-swinging, ill partner for 6-7 months is difficult too and fathers are great too".

Proud applauds from all the men began and continued for a long long time.

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