The process of arrival and departure, for every human being in this planet is similar. The only aspect that varies, is the choice that each person makes, in order to lead a happy and a satisfied life. As a child, happiness is always possible to feel,as the wants are minimal. But as the child grows, the situation rapidly changes, and the attainment of utmost happiness, becomes close to impossible. This is mainly because, once the child becomes an adult, wants supersede needs.Why does this happen?! There can be numerous reasons for this, two among the many would be the influence of the people around the person, and the requirement to maintain a fair social status. If you look at the above reasons, it can be understood that, if the wants of an individual increases to a considerably higher level, the said reasons have a major role to play. It is completely fair and relevant for an individual, to enhance their outlook, resulting from the influence of the people around. But when the person blindly starts wanting things only because another individual possesses it, it becomes complicated. This is where the whole concept of individuality gets lost along the track. The core aspect for this behaviour, is the result of not getting to know oneself better. Due to this, the individualwould look to explore places, try out cuisines, and want things which genuinely does not interest them. And if they are unable to possess it, sadness, anxiety and depression comes in.
When you make an effort to get to know yourself better, and stand up for your wishes and needs, even if you fail to fulfil your desires, you would try till it makes its way to you. This, is because you genuinely have an interest to obtain it, and you are not doing it owing to the pressure around, which you create for yourself.
Life becomes happy, if you realise that, you and another person are not on the same journey. Even with the final destination being similar for every human kind, the path is varied.