My Kinda Love

'Love'

Much ink has been spelt on this four letter word. Every person has a different take on it and so do I. A feeling, an emotion that can/cannot be expressed for some. "Ishq, prem, mohabbat are some of its synonyms that we come across when watchings films or reading poetry.

Radha-krishna, soni-mahiwal, heer-ranjha

These are the predominant timeless love stories which have made a place in our hearts whenever we talk about the word love.The word is beyond the social barriers of caste, nationality &colour . I wan to pen it down in relation with virtual world and if possible try to alter people's mindset about it.

Love a strong feeling/emotion that you feel for other human which has less presence of you and more of that human in your heart . You create a little more space in yourself for the other person without you being compromised. its a feeling of being together in the nest of love. when we are in love the dopamine ,endorphin and serotonin (feel good hormones) are at their best.

Love, loved, loving and lovable - what do we infer from the above words, that love is a verb. Verb means an action word that we have been taught since our school days . Thus love is a verb best expressed in actions.

In today's world where pizza reaches us faster than an ambulance , love has become fickle, one-sided , unrealistic and temperamental. Its the intensity or depthness of your actions that counts when you say you love someone. Cooking a meal, helping out in day to day chores, easing out hardships of your loved ones count for the efoorts that you put in.

Every person on this earth has got 24 hours , In this 24 hours how much time is spent in expressing I LOVE YOU ? Thus making youself a little less important for the pure reason of deriving joy so to bring a smile on that persons face . When you express your love in action , you forever get etched in the books of their heart.

Social media has made us crazily addicted because of which we are loosing emotional attachement and their is dearth of love thereby rising the levels of mental illness all over the world. Love and smile emogis have have unarguably conquered the feelings that once happened over telephonic conversations or even before "meet and greet". Today pictures are captured to signify superficial attachment , to satisfy the inner feeling of JOMO(JOY OF MISSING OUT ) to let the world know how happy you are . We are so much engulfed to feel appreciated by social validations ( like, share , react & comment that we lose time .

"The greatest gift that you can give someone is your time " . Time counts when everything fails , investing time in heart felt chat, hugging( not to miss physical attachment) go a long way. Being an ear to someone will go a long way in forging strong emotional connections. Feeding birthdays, anniversaries and other important dates in brain (best application) will never run out of memory.

So to conclude my kind of love is putting in efforts , taking time out , being physically present , holding them important in your life is expressing your love in action . Else we always have social media at our rescue to remind us the wherabouts of world without having to remind us to obey Love and time .