Do you think love, at first sight, is a real concept? Well if you ask me I don't really believe in love at first sight.It's not that I don't believe in love, I do strongly believe in love, but love, at first sight, is something that I don't believe in. As per my beliefs, falling in love with someone the moment you see them or meet them not possible. Maybe we can get attracted to someone when you see them for the first time, but you can't term it as love. It’s just an attraction. This attraction can from the first step of love but it is not ‘love’.

Maybe you meet someonefor the first time and find them attractive that's where a connection starts. And then you keep trying to see them again, meet them more frequently spend time and try to know each other and after all that you come to realize if you love them or you don't.Maybe at the end you realize that you are actually in love with that one person but at that point you can't call it ‘love at first sight’. Yes, you were attracted to each other you first met,but you didn’t love each other back was just an attraction, a feel of connectivity that, when followed by meeting, spending time together, getting to know each other became ‘love’.But the matter offact is every time something like this happens you will call it ‘love at first sight’.

Maybe that is why our generation is not able to understand love. Today we seesomeone find them attractive skip all the steps and jump directly to love. We don’t try to talk,we don't try to know each other, and we just find Each Other beautiful or handsome and call it love. And that is why most of relationships fail today. Because westart dating someone, we don't even know.And when gradually we begin to understand each other, and we don’t find each other compatible enough, we break upeasily, because none of it was real.Yes, we are hurt, because we lost a chance at love, but we are not heart broken.

But the saddest part is, more the number of broken relationships the, less people believe in love.And at the end of it all, love fails.And this is the reason why I don't believe in ‘love at first sight’.

Because when we say love at first sight,the main subject here is sight. And sight is something that we see. And love never depends on what we see. It depends on what we feel. I really hopethat our generation is mature enough to understand the intimacy of true love soon.



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