First Impression Is Not The Best Impression

Hello!!
Okay I'm here with another article about people (don't know why I am going philosophical these days but yeah I guess this is a good one) and situations.

I don't think this phrase " First impression is the best impression" will be applicable in today's world of misunderstandings.

There are certain circumstances where a person is not his trueself. That person might require assistance or help from people around him who maybe friends or strangers or even the person's enemies. Friends and enemies are not a big deal; friends will always be there to help and enemies, based on the situation, may or may not help.

But you see the strangers' part? That is the point where this phrase will or will not be applicable. People get stuck up in certain situations where they would have to take a stranger's help. No one can really tell if it is the person's trueself in that particular situation therefore creating an impression is not an option. You might meet a person in the strangest of a situation where you might not even be able to greet or make a polite conversation with that person to begin with.

The stranger may get a picture about you which he might think is a clear picture but it is not. In today's world of misunderstandings, even a stranger will have a misunderstanding about you. If you are never going to meet that stranger ever again in your life then it is good for you because you do not have make any attempts to change that person's opinion about you. But if you are meeting that person once again in your life and that person may become a part of your life then you just need to be your trueself and no need to act in order to change the person's opinion about you.

People, situations and circumstances are not in a person's hands. You may be able to change them, you may not be able to change them. Creating an impression is not a part of a person's life.

Therefore do not feel guilty about the first impression you make in front of a person. That first impression maybe the worst and wrong impression about you and it takes time to create an impression so first times are not always good and don't feel guilty if the first impression is not the impression you would want to make 😊.

Be yourself and enjoy the space you are in!!