5 Myths On Friendship

Friendship just happens

Friends are something everyone holds dear to their heart. They say friendship happens in a click. Well they are wrong. In a friendship we require to show interest in the person. Friendship with a person requires a lot of effort from both sides [ if you want the friendship to prosper]. Sharing stories, eating food together, roaming together and making them happy, that requires a lot of work.

No time to make friends

We feel we are too busy in our lives with everything to make friends, Not at all. People say you make time for the things you value, so make time to make friends, they will make your life more comfortable and enjoyable. Don’t you need something that makes your boring life a bit interesting? All you need is to learn to manage time in your life. There should be at least an hour of that unstressing friend’s talks.

Friendship is a luxury

Do you think friendship is a luxury and you can’t afford it? Why? Making friends is a necessity not a luxury. It is proved that life without friends is a misery. ‘No man can live as an island’. Without friends, you are like a boat without sail or like an engine without oil [USELESS!!] You might have seen how people with friends are happy, you should make some too. Its not gold to be luxury, if you are good enough you will get friends.

You are bound in your friendship

No body is forced to make friends. You do it in your own will. Nobody can force you into staying in the group, you can leave whenever you want. Only true friendships last forever. If u think your current group doesn’t have the deep connection, you should leave it. Its kind of bad, if you still choose to stay in a toxic friends group. You will go in many group throughout your lifetime, it’s not necessary that you live your life with all of them. Sometimes, its good to leave some people behind.

Friendship lasts forever

If you had a best friend during childhood, you will realise why this is a myth. As we grow, it is possible that we might end up in different schools. In the meantime, you see your Best friend posting ‘Ain’t never gonna get someone like her’ with her new friend. Of course, this will break your heart. But it is necessary for you to realise that nothing lasts forever and you can’t hold people back. Just let them go. Ifit was true friendship you people had, then she would return.