Do Whatever It Takes To Be Happy:)

"Dilon mei tum apni betaabiyan leke chal rahe ho
Toh zinda ho tum
Nazar mei khwaabon ki bijliyan lekar chal rahe ho
Toh zinda ho tum
Dilon mei tum apni betaabiyan lekar chal rahe ho
Toh zinda ho tum.."

Everyone is familiar with these lines. These were written and
presented by Farhan Akhtar. Okay so this might put some people in
dilemma about life. I am not really a go getter. I am an introvert and
don’t like to explore new places with new people because I feel
bounded about things when I am around people. This is of course not
about me, but this is about my personal opinions on life and different
phases of life. I haven’t seen much of life yet because I am just 21 but
yes the fact is almost 10 years of my age I believe were in vain
because I lived like an introvert for many reasons which I can’t list or
else this would become just an essay on “myself” which we used to
write in our childhood. This is an involuntary mistake that I made all
these years where I ran away from new things and changes that
came in my way.

You wanna know what living life to the fullest means? It is waking up
on a Monday morning with zero complaints. It is knowing that you
deserve happiness at every second of your life. It is doing anything
that you like and feeling good and confident about it. It is doing
whatever stupid thing you want to do without the fear of getting
judged. It is about being yourself in every situation. Being alive
simply means “living according to your own norms and never
regretting it”. You are going to be your age for only 365 days and
then you might get any other opportunity, you might die any day at
any hour. You might think that you wanna do a grand party on your
17 th and you count days before that. Who knows what happens after
seconds of your thinking about it. Who knows Earth might get
destroyed by black hole next second when you fought with your best
friend and were waiting for him to make it up to you. Don’t wait for
anything. Life is not given to you to wait or getting bored. You live
life only once, so go party, get drunk, get bullied on, be out of your
senses, experience every damn thing you want to do before you die.
“LIVE EACH DAY LIKE ITS YOUR LAST”

The moment your mom asks you to spend time with her, ditch your
plans and be with her. Who knows where will she be the next
day. Life is uncertain and every uncertain thing happens to destroy
us. Nothing in this world can be stopped and so is time. Time passes
like Saturday and Sundays. Come on you mature guys and girls, stop
denying love and affection, you can’t love someone as a teenager at
35. All those nurturing kids saying “ I don’t need love” , go run and
have someone in your life because you can’t make friends in nursing
homes lying on one of the beds at your 70s. Life never slows down,
bones become weak and fragile, hearts are not always strong. With
every cell in your body live right now.
Why are people afraid of catching up to their dreams? Why aren't
they brave enough to own up to their feelings? If we look around how many
people would we found who are settling in their lives? A hell lot of
people who are afraid to own up to their dreams and work hard to
achieve them even if there is no support. Taking a chance is not that
scary. Life is short, so do whatever makes you happy.

"BECAUSE IN THE END WE ONLY REGRET THE CHANCES WE DIDN’T TAKE."