Confidence is a heavily misunderstood concept. Confidence cannot be faked.
You can fake and manufacture motivation, excitement, or even passion at the moment.
Unlike motivation and other emotional states which are more surface level, confidence is deeper and more subconscious.

Your confidence is based on what you’ve done. What you’ve done, in addition to the situation your prior performance has created, shapes your belief about your future

Confidence is for sure your belief in your capability to succeed. It is also reflected in the level of performance and mastery you can develop. In other words, your imagination and mindset are based on your confidence.

You can fake imagination and mindset for a short period of time. But at your core, you won’t really believe what you conjure up in your mind without the confidence to support it. For example, a person who has never made 6-figures may imagine they are making tens of millions.

But they don't really believe it to the level of conviction.
Breaking this down even further:
Confidence comes from past performance
Recent past performance is more important than the stuff you did 5–10 years ago
You can’t ride the wave of old confidence for too long
Who you were isn’t who you are
You may have had huge confidence, faith, and imagination a few years ago but not have huge confidence now

Your belief, level of imagination, and faith in your future are based on your confidence
The bigger your confidence, the bigger your future.

Here are some tips to build confidence :

TURN YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS INTO POSITIVE THOUGHTS : As you pay attention to your negative thoughts, turn them around to positive thoughts. It will take time but it will help you.

MAINTAIN A POSITIVE SUPPORT NETWORK : Connect with those who are close to you, whether they are family or friends, to keep your perspective uplifted. Furthermore stay away from people or things which make you feel bad.

BELIVE IN YOURSELF AND BE YOURSELF : The more you believe in yourself, the more you feel confident. Never try to compare yourself with others, compete with yourself only so that you will got to know that how much you have actually improved.

IDENTIFY YOUR TALENTS : Everyone is good at something, so discover the things in which you are good, and also focus on your talent. Don't waste your talent as it makes you different from the rest. Express yourself through your talent and be proud of your talent.

BE PATIENT : Gaining self confidence doesn't happen overnight. Not meeting your goal for the first time around us is an opportunity to learn more about yourself.

BOUNCE BACK FROM YOUR MISTAKES : Remember that no one is perfect. Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point we may feel like we lack something . That is reality. Learn that life is full of bumps on road.

SET SMALL AND ACHIEVABLE GOAL: This is very important. Often, people sets unrealistic or unattainable goals, and either bcome overwhelmed with the challenge. You can't achieve a big goal in less time. So set small and achieve able goals like climbing on stairs. You can't reach your destination in 1 day it needs a lot of time.

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