The Love Triangle!!!

I guess many of us will be wondering what is this love triangle? A love triangle is common phenomenon these days that involves three people who are each in love with at least one other person in the relationship. It is more like an awkward moment when you’re in a relationship with someone and you tend to fall for someone else to and make a multiple relationship this is referred to as love triangle. These love triangles are confusing affairs and unless or otherwise you let the person know how invested you are in them, coming out of it is going to be really messy.

A love triangle should not be confused with a ménage à trois, a three-way relationship in which either all members are romantically involved with each other, or one member has relations with two others who are reconciled to the situation instead of being in conflict. Ménage à trois is French term that translates to "household for three" meaning it is usually composed of a "married couple and a lover, who live together while sharing sexual relations” This differs from a love triangle because each participant is equally motivated purely by sexual desires operated with any assortment of sexes: three men, three women, two men and a woman.

Why many of them fall in this situation it is due to misunderstanding and due to lack of commitment. The couples involved in most relationships today have desires and expectations of how our partners have to be. Due to these expectations, we tend to see alot misconceptions that tune in our thoughts, this in turn makes us frustrated with the existing partner and we try to find someone else who is far better than them. Loss of attraction, loss of sexual drive, spending less time with each other are a few other psychological factors that we experience that propels us to break the trust and love that the person had on us. It's not because of our fault or intention but when we hear and see a lot of things in the social world in and around us that mislead us. Sometimes when our peer group members have these kinds of relationships, we tend to give it a try and we spoil our dignity and our true value from the people. The worst thing in this universe is when you break the trust of a person which breaks them down emotionally. Emotions are not meant to be played with because when we go through an emotional break down that is when we realize how painful and sorrowful that situation is.

In order to avoid these types of circumstances that degrades our character and morale, the first and foremost thing to do is we should remind ourselves, and remember that we made a commitment to accept people the way they are. When we see someone who we feel is better than the one we have in our life we should try to feel the love, care and most importantly the trust that they have on us so that we will come out from that easily. Be honest and faithful to the person who loves you the most and is so considerate about you, so never try to make them feel that the decision they made for you is wrong when we had made a commitment to someone to stay till our last breath. Give them the love they are valuable of. There should be a circle of love and not triangle of love because these two things are way different from each other.