Does Love Hurt?!

Love is a beautiful feeling. We can be ourselves in front of our love without any fear of judgment. Love always set us free. So, why is there a fear of pain and suffering associated with it? Grief is, indeed, complementary to love. Without pain, you will never be able to enjoy the feeling of endearment. It is said that we chase things until we get them, and as soon as we have it, we don’t value them, instead, we take it for granted. The same is with love.When you don't have love, you chase it like it is the only thing left in the world and then when you have it you don't take proper care of it and slowly over time, this love which used to blossom some time before, withers away. This withering of love is a significant cause of pain, and the more difficult part is dealing with that pain.

However, sometimes, it is our imagination that causes us so much pain. The idea of giving our partner a bit of space and to allow them to live their life on their norms hurt us.Sometimes we criticize our partners for reasons that do not even make sense. Excess of anything is wrong; being over possessive and not being possessive at all, both of these traits are extremes, and it is always better to keep yourself in the mean.

Nevertheless, it is also true that where there is love only there will you feel hurt because any random person in your life can never hold power to hurt you. But why do we feel hurt? We get hurt because we imagine various situations, and we start living in that imagination. We expect that things must happen how they were conceived. But when things go wrong, and they do not occur as we had expected them to occur, then it becomes the reason for our hurt and sadness. We perceive things differently, and it is the perception of love that hurts and not love. When this love grows, the transformation of every old feeling and memory into a new one causes pain. When a relationship ends, the fear of what is going to come next in your way makes you anxious.

However, we must know that love always remains immortal, and it still stays there in your heart. Thus, it is not Love that hurts, but the person who hurts you and you must always remember not to change yourself to make someone love you but to wait for the right person who would see all your flaws and still want to turn your life around.