Heartbreaks

Everyday you would see people being hurt by something someone said or did. At a young age, we don't really take small things to heart, we might think over it for some time but with time we forget about it. But as we grow up, even the little things start hurting like anything. And a lot of times what hurts the most are words.

Heartbreaks are always caused by the people we love the most, and you know why? Because they are the people from whom we have a lot of expectations. Most of the times, it is expectations that hurt us. But it is a human tendency, we've expectations only from the people we love. And they being human have flaws and they make mistakes. Not every time you're hurt is because someone wants you to be hurt. Sometimes they are just the misunderstandings causing the damage. And the one hurting you might be in as much pain as you are or sometimes even more. We're all humans, and there's one thing about being a human that we can never be perfect. If you think the other person is wrong, and maybe they are wrong, what if they feel sorry about it from their heart. Maybe sometimes you're wrong to think that you're the only one hurt.

That is how heartbreaks are, sometimes the person hurting you might even be more hurt. And a broken heart takes time to heal, that you must know that it does heal, with time and with love. And that love must not necessarily come from somebody else. You need to love yourself first, and you need to love yourself more than you love anybody else. People will break your but the end of the day the one who can heal is only you and nobody else. You're are your healer. People will only hurt you, no one will take the responsibility of helping you heal again. Maybe some might help you through it, cherish those people. But there's one thing that should not be forgotten, expectations often lead to frustration. Don't have expectations from anyone to help you through your tough times. Because in the end it's just you and after every fall you must learn to stand on your own. Don't expect a helping hand to help you get on your feet again, you might never have one. Learn to be your own saviour.