Sexual Frustration And Depression: The What, How And Why

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Somya Bhatnagar
May 16, 2019   •  30 views

What is SEXUAL FRUSTRATION ??

Sexual frustration is a sense of dissatisfaction stemming from a discrepancy between a person's desired and achieved sexual activity. It may result from physical, mental, emotional, social, and religious or spiritual barriers

What is DEPRESSION ?

Depression is a mental health disorder in which a person feels dejected and despondent from the outside world and severe loss of interest in activities of life.

Sexual frustration may be a surface type of factor which leads to the primary emotions that leads to depression. now sexual frustration can be a secondary emotion to loneliness, lack of communication, self hatred, self doubt, low self esteem or feeling unwanted.

Now I have read somewhere the case of James Holmes, who killed many ,out of lack of social interaction( some may disagree, and say he was indefinitely deviant by nature). Basically the lack of social acceptance from the opposite sex, when he wanted to feel loved and cared for, he got rejected from every women he contacted on an adult casual sex website.

This made him sexually frustrated because he never had sex and never was in a serious relationship, hence filled with depressive and self criticising thoughts, he thought of killing people because thats what today's women liked; KILLERS. In fact there are many women who now think Holmes is "hot", "sexy" or "cute", when he killed so many people.

so coming to the point, the society itself made him think that killing would give him his desires fulfilled.

Let's see what sexual frustration means to a lady.
In our modern civilization, the female aggresion is not the same as the male aggresion. actually as it turns out, the females get sexually excited when they are teased or frustrated. the women cant take out this sexual energy any other way so it is the sexual anger that comes out.

So sexual frustration not only bring out emotions like anger, or self-hatred, but it also somehow radically leads to depression.

There are a lot of cases of depression in which the primary symptom is sexual frustration because they are deprived of their desires being fulfilled. And cases where the aggression or the act of violence comes forth due to the reason they can't be loved and accepted by their sexual partners.

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