HOW TO FACE FAILURE?
HOW TO FIGHT FAILURE?
HOW TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF FROM FAILURE TO ACHIEVER?
A situation where most of the people stuck in their life is a failure, a situation where there are only two choices, either you can fight and face the fear or you can drop and wait for the time to change.
Facing fear is a tough choice but it's the only one through which you can achieve a step towards success but waiting for the time to change is the worst choice a person can make in his life.
Time is a quantity which changes and if you're not changing yourself with it then you are going to stuck in a situation where no one can help you.
Failure is the first step towards success now that doesn't mean you will prepare to fail to be successful but failure guides you the way towards something better.
There are countless entrepreneurs and scientist who just failed a thousand times to achieve the goal what they had in their mind. Some of the failures like,
Bill Gates was a Harvard dropout. He co-owned a business called Traf-O-Data, which was a complete failure.
However, skill and a passion for computer programming turned this failure into the pioneer of famous software company Microsoft, and the then 31-year-old into the world’s youngest self-made billionaire.
We can't forget Albert Einstein known as the Genius couldn't even speak properly till the age of 9. He was also restricted from the school but his earlier setbacks did not stop him from winning the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1921.
There are others such as Edison's 10,000 attempts to create the light bulb or Dyson’s 5,126 attempts to invent a bagless vacuum cleaner. But, whether we like it or not, failure is a necessary stepping stone to achieving our dreams.
Failure is just a word we keep in our mind and create fear of it, the one who accepts being failed can't move forward in their life.
These scientists or entrepreneurs never thought of being failed even the world call them as a failure they never accept it because they always know they are going to do something better for this world, we can't say that Edison was a failure as he told that he had not only shared a process of making a light bulb but he had also given 9999 attempts to not make it.
“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure”
HOW TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS FROM FAILURE
1- Goals:
A person without a goal is a person without hope, the first step towards success is to set a goal.
You can't achieve something in a single day but you can make an effort towards it.
Make sub goals which you can achieve in a single day like completing a chapter, to clean your bed, to wake early, to complete your work.
Basically, there are three types of goals:
1- Short term goals- makes you responsible.
2- Mastership goals- improve your extra skills and makes you intellectual and prudent.
3- Career goals- also known as long term goals, every particular goal in your life is a step to make this goal successful and victorious.
"Winners are not afraid of losing. But losers are. Failure is part of the process of success. People who avoid failure also avoid success"
2- Planning and execution:
A goal without planning and execution is nothing but a dream you can't achieve.
Planning and execution play a vital role to understand the accountability of your goal.
These are the two factors which are completely dependant on you because it's your life either you can give excuses or you can act..
“Ninety-nine percent of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses”
3- Learning from failures:
If you are not going to accept your mistakes then you are not going to improve it.
Failure is the best teacher of your life because once it happened it teaches your mistakes so that you can mend it.
Failures are the most significant steps towards success because the more you fail, the more you become an experience of achieving a goal in a proficient way.
“No human ever became interesting by not failing. The more you fail and recover and improve, the better you are as a person. Ever meet someone who’s always had everything work out for them with zero struggle? They usually have the depth of a puddle. Or they don’t exist”
It's your life either you can regret being failed or you can stand up to fight and achieve.