Hello everyone,

Before going to the topic, here are some small questions for yourselves...

Have you ever thought why the emotional gaps will be developed?.......

Have you ever thought why the problems will be created?.......

Have you ever thought why the disputes will be caused?.......

for all such things there will be many reasons in which "OPINION" may be one of them

Many of the questions remained as unanswered because there are many opinions surrounding it.

Basically the opinions will be based on two primary things"YES / NOwhich indirectly resembles"2 SIDES OF A COIN".The People who says Yes for your words ends up as your friends or wellwishers and who says No ends up as strangers or enemies.

There are many incidents in our personal and social life.

  • To brush your teeth you use some particular tooth paste X. Some like it and some don't like it.2 sides of a coin.

  • Some say it's better to go to office by public transport to save fuel, some say it's better to use own vehicle to save time. Again 2 sides of a coin.

  • Some say one can easily find jobs in mechanical field, some say it is difficult. Again 2 sides of a coin.

  • Some say love at first sight doesn't work as in most cases it is infatuation , some say it works. Again 2 sides of a coin.

  • Some say Astrology is true, some say it is fake. Again 2 sides of a coin.

  • Some say Relatives always behave with you by considering your past ,but friends will be made by seeing your present and hence its better to make friends than making relatives, some say one can find genuineness only in relatives but not in friends. Again 2 sides of a coin.

  • Some say arranged marriages are better than love marriages as in love marriages and if it is an inter-caste marriage there will be no happiness as the families may get separated, some say love marriage is better than arranged marriages as it's better to live a life along with known person instead of travelling with stranger. Again 2 sides of a coin.

  • Some say Talent matters to perform task but not experience, Some say Its only Experience which helps and guides you to do a particular task. Again 2 sides of a coin.

  • Some do work for money but not for satisfaction, Some do work for interest but not for money. Again two sides of a coin.

  • Some blame our political leaders for increasing corruption, Some say it's the fault of society who is electing them again and again. Again 2 sides of a coin.

Hence if one gets success by using SOME-THING it doesn't mean that everyone will get success by using that SAME-THING....

No one is correct or wrong, it's their SITUATION that makes them to stick to one of the 2 SIDES OF A COIN.

  • If one of your beloved ones, friends or relatives hurts you by their words or actions, Please take a long breath and try to analyze the situation they are experiencing. This simple technique will reduce all the emotional gaps between you and them. Because at last they are just normal human beings like you.

  • Discussing is better than Arguing. Discussion gives the solution and kills the problem, but Argument kills the solution and gives the problem.

  • Forgiving is better than Resisting. Forgiveness minimizes disputes and maximizes happiness, but Resistance maximizes disputes and minimizes happiness.

We cannot change HAPPENED PAST and cannot predict YET TO HAPPEN FUTURE. The only thing we can do is to enjoy HAPPENING PRESENT.

Thanks for reading

Small Notes: You may or may not agree with the above content which concludes 2 sides of a coin.

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