The Art Of Letting Go...

She got a smile on her face and a knife in her hand
She doesn’t look too sane when she acts like that
She said,
‘It's hard to relate when you don't understand’
She's been dancing with the devil all night
It's like darkness is where she feels right.

I just wanted to mean something to them. Toat least one......

Take a cup of tea and sit down, enjoy it while you read it. Because what all i am going to tell you now is something that i want you to get hooked to, something that should change you.

CHANGE

Learning you're not important to someone who is important to you is so painful. Especially when it happens more than once. Fear of rejection, and fear of not being loved play with your mind. And then you overthink to an extent which makes you feel toxic.

And you know you're partly to blame, for them not liking you. If you were more desirable. Only if you had better hair, better smile, better clothes maybe. Maybe they would like you, maybe they would want to be with you. You dwell upon your own insecurities. Who are you trying to fool? Why change? More like, why prove? And then you get stuck, between hating yourself and loving yourself. You hate yourself for not being more lovable. But you have to love yourself because you are all you have. It's not like you can change who you are, no matter how hard you try. But loving yourself cannot be a compulsion. It has to be a choice. A choice that you make.

Life is hard, life is not always sunshine and roses. Eventually...you have to let go. Letting go is painful, but holding on to it is worse. Even if it does not feel like it at first, the more you let go...the happier you will be. You will be able to put all your time and energy into getting what you want. You have to understand your worth and how exasperating criticism is. When people don't like you...you just don't care anymore.

There are always going to be people who don't like you. But you can breathe easy. The opinions of others can’t affect you, no matter what you think. You are all you need. That in the end is what letting go is. Learning that you are all that you need. That’s when you are finally at peace.

Saying goodbye to toxic people, to those you thought you had a ‘forever’ with, is heart breaking. But losing who you are is unacceptable. And in the end you have to look out for you and you alone. No one else is going to. And the moment you let go, you are going to end up being more powerful and successful than you could have imagined. You will discover your powers and shall find what your energies can do.

How they can change the universe.
How they can evolve you.