The Intimacy

Eye contact is the world’s best feeling ever!! Kids these days spend too much time on their looks, rather than the depth of their soul. You can never match how you feel with how you look. Spending time with your loved ones should depend on the measure of the intimate feel you get. Now, that’s what I call intimacy! The moment you look into those dreamy eyes of your loved one, it’s like you are diving into a sea of love! I always melt whenever I see his eyes. It is like, how a butter melts on a hot toast! You can never predict what the person holds for you in their big world, the struggles are for real. You cannot simply judge a person by how they behave at certain situations. It is a roller coaster of emotions which has affected them so much to react in such a way, from their past experiences. They might lie about their feelings towards the experiences they had so far, but, the eyes will always stand up for truth. It could lead you to their different world of endless fears, secrets, complicated thoughts, solitude, and sometimes, a loneliness which has a meaning. Eye contact connects you to their soul through the body.

Gone are the days, when eye contact was a feeling which is much more intimate than a physical contact. You can never know what the person has been through and will go through. If the person trusts you enough to let you have a deep eye contact with them, it is when the trust starts to build. It is the moment when they actually start to trust you. The moment when the person opens up to you, it should be listened to. And not just shush away, like an another story. Because, they trust you enough to let you see through them and still not judge them. Don’t make the terrible mistake of judging them after you have heard their story. They might never open up again. To anyone, ever.

Eye contact leads you to a deeper understanding of the soul. It can leave you breathless, to see a whole new beautiful different world inside of them. And surprisingly, you might even start to like them and want more. You start to like it, love it and eventually, embrace it with all the happiness. You try to lift it, hug it and embrace their hurt with all of your heart. And to never let go. Now that’s what I call intimacy. That is why, an eye contact is way more intimate than a physical contact. So, the next time when you look into someone’s eyes, try to look at the beautiful world inside them and not just them!