A Perspective Of Personality Development.

Personality development is one such word which sounds boring to many of us. Because most of the content concentrates on importance of being outspoken, supporting extroverts and suppressing introverts. This way of description is superficial.Actually, it is not a big deal whether a person is extrovert or introvert. It defines person's nature but not personality. Personality is just trusted on how one reacts to a particular situation.

There is always a small division of line between 'yes' or 'no'. Sometimes,people who are not sensible of this may either fall into self-obsession syndrome or people pleasing syndrome. It is all about your self-priority and the priority you give to the people, otherwise life can be shot to hell. You are already important in your life and also the people who pass by your life are equally important. Irrespective of the impact made by this people in your life, they are part of your life. And how we respond to this people is within our hold. Any situation is unprecedented but it's you who deal it. If you are sensible enough of the choice, then it is an upgrade towards your personality. Learning when to say 'yes' and when to say 'no' is a gradual process with reference to the past incidents.

In a simple way, anything too much can't be tolerated. If you are too helpful or too selfish; this can make you either a Karna or an Indian politician. Moreover, for a healthy and happy life, one should know when to be helpful and when to be selfish. Practically, this is called personality development.

People who take good care of themselves are more attractive to others because they are able to show that they have self-compassion.

Taking care of yourself means that others people will see you as someone who values themselves enough to devote time to maintaining balance and well-being.

Eating healthy food, exercising on a regular basis, pampering yourself on occasion, and paying attention to your mental health should be part of your daily routine.

"Personal charisma is a constellation of complex and sophisticated social and emotional skills. They allow charismatic individuals to affect and influence others at a deep emotional level, to communicate effectively with them, and to make strong interpersonal connections."

It involves many of the qualities of emotional intelligence, as well as that magical ability to “light up a room.”

Anyone can learn to be more charismatic by making some changes to your behavior. Charisma is all about the things that you say and do rather than who you are as a person.

Your social cues, physical and facial expressions, and how you treat other people are all a part of developing charisma. As you become more confident and authentically accessible, others will see you as more charismatic.

Developing and improving your personality to be more attractive takes practice.
This is a process that won't happen overnight, but as time passes, it will require less and less effort to sculpt your personality into something that feels good to you and that others will want to be around.

Your personality doesn't have to be fixed in stone. You have the power to become the best version of yourself by working on these ideas.

In the process of learning how to behave, we eventually realise who we are actually. And that is the exact point of personality development. Test your confidence. Test your passion. Test your patience. This self-assessment process is what evolves to an invincible being. We are ready to face any criticism. There can no other great thing than knowing about yourself and great things make their way in your life once you know your worth.