Do You Really Need Someone?

Everybody is busy in their own life their own problems. Even those who seems to my good friends and well wishers, They ignore me and have no time for me, May be not intentionally but yes, they do and i feel. But I can't say them because, even I don't know what I am feeling. I can't blame them because I know they have their own life, there own matters and problems, and they can't be always here, to stand with me, to solve my problems and bear my alternate behaviors.

It's really ridiculous and depressing whenever I think about this reality.

You also??

Yep! I know, But I have a simple question for you.Do you really need them?

If yes, then it's really a big problem. I am saying this because I think, you are enough to handle all your matters, problems, and feelings. If you were not, then why should the creator(GOD) set these all in your life. They gave you such matters or problems because they made you able to handle these stuffs. Getting?

We have to think about it, why we need someone to make us happy? what they do to make us happy? Usually when someone be with us and says that they love us, we feel happy. Why this happen? Why we need someone to love us? The reason is, we don't love ourselves the way we love others. We're insecure about ourselves. That's why when someone says they love us, we feel like we're perfect and we worth it. It makes us comfortable to be with them.

But, I don't think it's good because this makes us dependent on other people for happiness. and also this happiness is not long-lasting, as it ends the moment when the person leaves.

If you truly want to enjoy the life and don't want to depend on others to make you happy, then you have to love yourself the way you love others. Once, you become comfortable by yourself, then only you can truly appreciate people for what they are and not because the service they provide. This will give you the happiness which is long-lasting and real.

Learn to be even if you're all alone. learn to enjoy your own company. Actually you're not alone. According to Bhagavad Geeta, "You have the whole world inside you". You just have to find it.

Practicing self-love is not easy and might take a lot of effort but it's necessary.

Hope, It helps!
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