You Vs You

Just like a coin has two sides, every person has their two sides at least.

A person personalities are obviously different kinds, based on the people and the things they like or dislike. Have you ever been in a situation where you had to choose one option out of two, but you were so afraid to decide and could not think of a right option.

When a person has two options, it is very difficult to go for one when you find pros and cons of the options similar. You start to hear your two voices in the head, fighting for their option. It’s like you want it but you don’t want it. It’s like you can’t stand with that but you don’t even want to let go it. Whenever you face a situation like this, be it with anything or perhaps any person, and you are so confused to choose, then you should first calm down. Follow these steps that you find helpful choosing between two options.

1) Calm down

Before you think of their pros and cons, just skip them and calm down. Pause everything and just stop your mind to think. It is very difficult but important to do nothing and to just stop your mind wander.

2) Think

Now that you’ve been calm so far, think of the work you got or the reason behind the two options. Make it clear, because uncertain things lead to nowhere. You should first be very clear about the reason.

3) 50/50

Now, its your 50 % that chose option one and the other 50 % chose option two. List of the pros and cons about the options first. Read it and compare it and write the result of the comparison.

4) What if

Now, what if there was only one option from the two, would you have been happy? Or would you have been still searching for something else? Think once for each option, cancelling the other one.

5) Decide

If your option had been happy while cancelling one and not other, then you could feel what you want, you can go for it. But, still if you’re good for both. Toss a coin, that is the easiest way! When you flip a coin and if you get a thought of other option, then choose that option, that's where you heart has been.

Apart these, it is important to listen what others would say about it, so that it will be easy for you to look into pros and cons of the options very well. You should just listen what they feel and don’t decide on their decision.