Every living form has an appropriate life span as we all know. We all are mortal, and that'spre-written. The stages of life that we pass along are always messed up with height and depth. Either we can fly or fall. Experiences do teach us how to enhance our abilities and potentials to withstand those shakes to learn something new. Situations with huge difficulty knock our doors, and we left with no choice to open but, there is a choice of power and understanding how to tackle and pass through.
The thing I am going to talk about is not only understanding situations rather adjustment too. Here I am with a question, Is that understanding and adjustment all we need to balance any critical situation? Without being violent and harsh is one sided adjustment and understanding always works to place things in order? I think a bit differently. Anything one sided is not a truth. Nature, and its law even say the action-reaction protocol. So why, understanding and adjustmenttobe just one side act between two. Yeah, of course it's important to understand the point of a matter and work accordingly but that must be a both way role. Sometimes we just need to focus on UNDERSTANDING, and on other hand MAKING UNDERSTAND. T o make another person understand and realize the fault is a big art. We need to check how, when, were and why to place words so that it fits on the right order and result fruitfully. Society and its norms have always portrayed, women bound to understand and be dominated to adjust. Today's world is out of all those cultures as we all are getting knowledge and education on right amount. True education never teaches us to be selfish, dominating, greedy, dishonest and to be proud. Women must-know to control their emotions, focus on problems, adjust them on the sake of peace and understand with whole heart. They must also learn to make their men understand and try to make them realize their faults and art to adjust. Same procedure implies with men too. Times when we women need to be quiet, controlling our actions and holding breath and emotions just to make them understanding as we do.
Understanding and adjustment is not only the thing to make a bond strong rather wholesome effort is also needful. We need to listen to the other person and must respect his/her decisions. We all have heart full of softness and love, but sometimes we must change them to be strong emotionally cause that can make the other one soft and wise enough to understand and its worth. Actions full of anger, rudeness, and violence are never correct. Actions with cleverness and good intentions are always beneficial and to be praised.
UNDERSTANDING IS A TALENT AND MAKING THE OTHER ONE TRUELY UNDERSTAND IS AN ACT OF A TRUE ARTIST.