Meet Me Halfway -Urge of a Girl
The same headline in Newspaper yet again, "A minor gang-raped", victims family tortured and beaten brutally. Do you know that in this male domineering world what really is an urge of a girl?
It is “Meet Me Halfway”. Meet her halfway in her hopes, dream, desires, and Expectations. Value her dreams and her hopes. She is also similar to you and one among you. The gender discrimination in education has definitely started to decline but, there are some who suffer under the roof. It's moreover, hidden nowadays.
People tend to talk about being open-mind and welcoming advanced trends but do they really do so? What does really happen in the case of a girl? Why do they suddenly start to think about society and its consequences on other people? She doesn't expect from you to fulfill her needs and treat her like a queen but, all she wants is a pinch of respect and equality.
Just think of a situation, when you feel lonely about being far away from your crowd. The people with whom you are comfortable with when they are not around you, how awkward and uneasy you feel. Now think about that girl, how she feels on being surrounded by people having a cheap mentality. More than 90% of people around her are those who would never support her and were always there to ridicule and criticize. It even seems difficult to breathe in such cases.
The major solution for all these problems is, rather than moving away from such perceptions try to train the next generation. Make them aware of the fact that Men and women are equal and their faults and mistakes are also equal. Also, women should be acquainted with the fact that they are equal to men whether it's about favoring seat to men or raising voice against injustice.
She knew that it would take time to change things so, she started to change herself to meet people’s thought midway. In this male dominating society, it is difficult to survive with strength. So, she brought a change and rather than proving her strength she paid more emphasis on handling stuff by using her brain to conquer the world.
Before asking her vague questions “when are you getting married”, do ask her “how are your studies going on” or Do you need any help?You will surely witness a smile and satisfaction on her face. Yes! People have started to consider her the way she always wanted. At least someone is there to understand her, and this is her belief that things will change for sure.