How To Overcome Failures In Your Life

HOW TO OVERCOME FAILURES IN YOUR LIFE

A very Good Afternoon to all my viewers!! Firstly, thanks a million to all those who are appreciating my articles and giving their valuable views on them. So here I am, once again with you all to share with you the burning topic of every day i.e. FAILURE that one faces in one way or the other.

There is a great saying quoted by Michael Jordan as:

“I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying.”

Many a time, things go OK or sometimes even better than that. But one also has to face the dark side of the coin where people make a mistake and have setback which leads to failure.

Here, I am not talking about the failure only in the examinations but the failures in other fields also, simply, failure in life.

And you know what most of us do in such a situation?!!

We just simply sit in one corner with hands on our forehead and start cursing our destiny and in some extreme situations even suicidal thoughts pop up in our mind. Is the real solution to this?!

OF COURSE NOT, the real solution to this is that there is a need for a smart and self-kind way to handle such situations instead of letting them escort to vicious self- beatings and plunging into negativity or sometimes – depression.

So, here are some of the tips to overcome failure:

1.FIRST, JUST ACCEPT HOW YOU FEEL

It is most likely to be hurt when you have just failed it. It depends upon situations, sometimes a bit or sometimes a lot.

THAT’S OK

Firstly, never try to push it away by distracting yourself and also never try to paint it over with a smile.

The mantra is #TRY TO ACCEPT IT, TO LET IT IN AND LET IT HURT FOR A WHILE INSTEAD OF REJECTING IT AND RUNNING FROM IT.

2.YOU’RE NOT A FAILURE ONLY BECAUSE YOU HAD A SETBACK

I AM A FAILURE, I CANT DO ANYTHING NOW.

This is the feeling; one has when he faces failure in his life. One should never fall for such a seductive self-fulfilling prophecy. There can be a solution to this, is that instead of thinking or saying all this crap, remind yourself:

·Failing today doesn’t mean you will fail the next time.

·It is the truth that such failure won’t last for the rest of your life.

3.BE CONSTRUCTIVE AND LEARN FROM THIS SITUATION

U know the simplest way, one can do this is to ASK HIMSELF BETTER QUESTIONS.

Questions can be like:

·What I can learn from this failure?

·What can I do differently the next time that I don’t repeat this?

TAKE SOME TIME AND ASK SUCH QUESTIONS FROM YOURSELF AND BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF.

THAT WILL HELP YOU BOOST UP AND FACE IT!