Every New Year we tend to make "resolutions" but only very few last. We hope to give up things from last year that hadn't been helpful or that which had caused us stress. We also look forward in picking up new habits that will help our life become much easier and stress free.
Every day life is a challenge in itself. Our perception towards everything matters. How we take in others opinions or what our opinion is about certain things define our life, in a way.
Here are 6 things that you may pick up this year that'll help you change your life.
1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are everyday.
We don't always realise what we have until we lose it. Our life too is a gift and we probably won't know its value until there's a threat to it. By "our life" I mean the happiness, the sadness, the worries and all our emotions. We sometimes or more than always complain about things that aren't according to our choice. Well, not everything is bound to happen as per our choice.
You can be a complainer or an achiever. But you cannot be both. -Robin Sharma
Accepting and letting go are the main keys to a happy life. So, for a year from now, stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are, everyday. And you shall see what difference it makes in your life. 😊
2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.
Not everyone or everything that comes into our life stays forever. The one Woh stays forever with you, is you. So why feel lonely at all?
You are at your best when you are on your own.
Just embrace the loneliness and while you're at it, you'll be your best. Use this time to improve your own self.
3. Say goodbye to the people that don't bring positive energy into your life.
People come and people go. But what about the one's that stay? Are they here to help you? To cheer you? Atleast to support you? If not, remove them yourself. Say goodbye to the toxic people in your life. These negative people are a failure themselves, and will pull you down with them.
Once you realise that these did nothing for your betterment, losing them won't seem like a loss.
With negative people around you, you can never live a positive life.
Say goodbye to people that don't bring positive energy into your life.
4. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your efforts into developing it.
All of us are blessed with different talents and skills. We just need to identify them and develop it. This year pick one skill you've been waiting to try. Put all your efforts in developing it and see what difference it makes in your life.
5. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.
We tend to give up really soon, therefore the goals we set are left unachieved forever.
This year make it a goal to commit to the goals you set and never look back, or think about giving up.
Set short term goals, this will help you keep your focus on it and will lessen the burden.
6. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.
Failure is a part of our life. No success shall be appreciated without failure. But giving up isn't an option even if you fail. Remember, if you fail, you're doing it right. Learn from the mistakes you make. This will help you reach your goal better.
I hope these tips helps you in improvising your life for the next one year.
Good Luck.