Problem Dealing - Something Which People Don't Deal With!!

Everyone aims to have a perfect life — a life having no worries, no complications. Yet they face a number of situations regarded as unwelcome and needing to be dealt with. Yes everyone faces problems. Nobody has a perfect life. Everyone has his own consistent bundle of problems. It is just a matter of how one deals with them.

There is no escape to problems or rather say one shouldn't even try to find an escape. Running away is a path of very little resistance hence it seems attractive. Challenge yourself to stay whenever you think of running away. Leaving is comfortable but staying is a challenge. Problems cause anxiety so people try to avoid or ignore dealing with them. Unfortunately this causes any problem to come back with greater intensity. Could you be letting little challenges grow into huge obstacles by not dealing with them?

The first step to deal with any problem is to accept that you have a problem which many people fail to do. Acknowledge the issue you are facing, develop a plan, focus on what you haven't used yet. It would give you a brighter view. Ask for help, stay mentally strong and practice acceptance. Take a break, it will help you to gather your energy, and then channelize the same to solve your problems. Embrace life as it is rather than as you wish it to be. Be assertive but be courteous. Turn your head towards reality. Tough times are opportunities to learn, to grow and to improve. Stop overthinking. Your sadness, your anger won't solve the problem. It would only add to your frustration and bring more sufferings.

Problems are not stop signs. They are guidelines. Happiness is not absence of problems but one's ability to deal with them. Change your thinking. 'Problem' is a dead-end word. Consider it as a challenge. Patience is the key which helps to overcome all your challenges. Never lose hope. Time would heal everything.