Are you stuck in a relationship that feels like it is leading know where? Are you stuck in a relationship that feels like it may be over?
Give a thought, whether your relationship is like a pseudo-relationship where you think there is something more when there is nothing. Moving on is painful and takes a while, but you won't regret that because it you will eventually meet your real soul mate, whom you will get married to.
These signs not only apply to romantic relationships, but friendships as well!
Firstly remember don't let your past relationships ruin your present one.Don’t replay the happy moments of the relationship just to make yourself feel good.Live your relationship with the person exists in the current moment and not in the past. Don’t make past memories as a reason to stay together. Your decision on whether to stay with the person should be based on your current feelings for your partner, the actual state of the relationship and the future you see with him/her.
Does your relationship brings you more pain than joy? If yes, then move on.Sometimes, we are blinded by the past happy moments of the relationship to the extent that we forget about all the unhappiness it brings us. If your relationship leaves you frustrated, upset and unhappy or if your partner is leaving you in tears every often, remember this is not the right person for you.
Never expect your partner to change unless it's for their wellbeing. Your love is unconditional if you love someone truly. There are people who want their partners to change, such as to dress up more often to look prettier or to lose weight when partner is of healthy weight.
When you stay on, expecting he/she will change then you are in this for a wrong reason. This not only applies for the other person as much as it applies for you. Accept the individual as he/she is, don’t try to change the person to fit your expectations because you will never be fully satisfied with him/her. The worst thing is, if the other person is unconscious, he/she will keep changing just to fit your expectations. In the end, your partner will just end up being your shadow.
Is your partner causing you emotional, physical, verbal hurt? Then say definite no to it. There is clearly something wrong if your partner causes you physical and verbal abuse, no matter how your partner tries to make up for it later. Even if it may be the spur of the moment, the fact shows that there is something deep inside him/her that needs addressing.
Every relationship requires effort by the duo as both of you have committed to the relationship together. If only one of you is constantly putting in more effort, then it will definitely drain you.
If your core values are fundamentally different, it doesn’t matter even if everything else is the same, still your relationship has end somewhere. It’s just like trying to hold the soil of the ground together in a heavy rain.
When the relationship holds you back, it prevents both of you from growing as individuals.When this happens, you either need to change the dynamics of the relationship to fit the new development, or change yourself to maintain the same dynamics. A relationship that hinders you from growing into your own is the worst one for you.
Things change and people do change so at times neither of you feel the same way about each other. If your feelings for your significant other are no longer there, it’s time to move on. Some of you might continue being in a relationship even though the feelings are gone as it has become part of your routine and you don’t know what to do once you breakup. Some of you continue on you need companionship. Remember, a relationship without the mutual feelings is like a body without a heart.