Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationship is the pure form of a true love. And it does not work it for everyone. In long distance relationship he/she should adjust each other and here "the trust" plays a major role. At sometimes long distance relationship sucks. Here all we get only a disappointments. The one who is in a long distance relationship their most happiest moment will be the video call with their loved one. Everyone I've met in a long distance relationship can relate to the slow agonizing feeling that takes place over months or even years that feeling that your heart is slowly carved out of your chest by a bitter knife and replaced with Skype calls and open chat Windows.

The one who is being in a long distance relationship must be genuine to each other.

you always need something to look forward to together

What kills long distance relationships is the constant underlying uncertainty of everything."Is this all worth it?" "Does he/she still feel the same way about me as he/she did before?" "Is he/she secretly meeting other gals/boys without knowing me?" "Am I kidding myself with all of this? Maybe we 're horrible for each other and I don't know it."

The longer you two are apart,the more these uncertainties will fester and grow into legitimate existential crises.

That's why when making any long distance relationship work it's necessary to always have some date that you are both waiting for. Usually,this will be the next time you are both able to see each other. But it can be major life moments as well applying for jobs in the other person's city,looking at apartments together,a vacation together,and so on. The minute you stop having some milestone to look forward to together,it will become harder to maintain the same enthusiasm and optimism for each other.

One thing that is true about all relationships is that if they're not growing,then they're dying. And this is more important than ever in long distance relationships. You must be evolving towards something. There must be some goal out in front of you that you're reaching together. You must have some cause that unites you at all times.

A funny thing happens to humans psychologically when we're separated from one another. We 're not able to see each other as we truly are. When we 're apart from one another or have limited exposure to a person or event, we start to make all sorts of assumptions or judgements that are usually exaggerated or untrue

In long distance relationship at some cases,people get jealous and irrationally possessive of their partner because they perceive every casual social outing without them as potentially threatening to their relationship. when stuck in a long distance scenario,it is important to distrust many of your own judgements and inclinations to a certain degree. Remind yourself that you really don't know what's going on and the best thing you can do at any moment is to simply talk to your partner about what they're feeling and about what you're feeling.