Okey we've all been there,in the beginning it goes great,you guys connect so well and oh my gosh the jokes, they're the gold ! Then you guys realize you have so much in common and at a point it seemed like you've finally met your best friend but the moment you came to reality was when that God like personality made a mistake,like all humans do and now these 7 Signs will help you decide your next decision regarding them.
1 They Have Changed
It's the fact and you know it.Its the very reason why you're here and reading this article and trust me it's more common than you can imagine.This is the core root why most of the most all time amazing relationships end and it's nothing your fault.People change it's what they do,but you only have to bear with them to the point that you can, after that,it's your turn to change.
2 They Make You Miss The Past
What's the point of living in a reality which is not the most amazing and awesome moment of your life ? There's none !
I understand people cannot be perfect but you at least deserve someone who could cherish you today at 6 pm the same way he/she did 10 months ago when you were a fabulous hotshot. (You're even better now, trust me ;) )
3 One Sided Efforts
Making efforts is one thing,it's really appreciated and a golden skill that rare people possess.If you're one of those rare people then find an another rare person like you who would climb mountains and make sky rain just for you, including doing those little things like showing up for you, giving you casual surprises for no reason and just calling to know how you're doing.If a person cannot even do half of that,they what are they even doing in your life ?
4 You're an Idiot and They Don't Have A Problem With It
Now don't take this the wrong way,you of course deserve to be accepted and loved the way you are.But a true caring fellow would give you a reality check when you're actually ruining your life or making a bad decision because your future impacts and happiness matter to them as much as you do.
5 They Often Remember You (When They Need You)
A friend in need is a friend indeed.This quote will ruin you as much as you let it.Trust me you are the nicest person in the world but at the same time if you let people take advantage of that and let yourself get used by them while somewhere,some bit knowing that they're only using you...
You're only being the worst person ever,to yourself.
6 They're Too Busy For You
Let's admit it,no one is free these days.But still we do manage time for the people we love, people who matter to us.And our close ones are humans too hence they have all the rights in the world to be busy.But if they have time to post pictures on social media with spicy senorita and 12 others,go to clubs and party like an animal but not 10 minutes to call you up,check on you or just randomly tell you how awesome you are (which makes you feel horrible as you expect their time) ,then it's time to hit the button my friend.Take the trash out.
7 You Know They're Toxic but You Love Them
One can only break a heart as long as that heart loves that one. They're one of those negative fellas your parents warned you about when you were a little kid.They have a problem for every solution ! And they don't bring out the best in you or even themselves.
I'm not telling you it's wrong to be with someone who's a loser,but I'm telling you not to be with someone who's okey with being a loser. Why ?
Because neither he is,nor you are.
Life is hard indeed.With all the bunch of amazing people confusing us about which to throw and which one to preserve.Making these decisions could be hard but once made, they'll give long term beautiful results and no matter what happens,I trust you'll make the right decision.
How do I know that ?
Because you're one hell of an amazing person yourself !