The Pain Of Being Unloved!!!

It is an unexplainable and unbearable suffering if we get to know that we are unloved. Life is a beautiful and wonderful gift given by God to us. But to understand the value of life, we must have people to share our success and failure stories. We want people to love,a shoulder to lean, a hand to hold and a heart to say "I am there with you."Even if no one is there , I will be able to live alone" is an absolute sign of foolishness. There are hearts which crave for love and care. There are also people who beg for others' mercy.While there are people who cry and do everything to earn others' love. Seeing others being loved by their kith and kin ,when you have to walk alone would be the worst punishment for anyone.

Even if we die, we must always have someone to cry for us.It would be very painful to lose the people who care for you or would do anything for your well-being.At the same time,we must never allow someone to take advantage of our affection towards them.

In today’s world of technology, people have no time to bother about others' issues. The mental depression that we undergo could be attributed to the excessive useage of electronic devices.

The reason of saying these things is that people do not spend time with each other and no one knows about anyone completely.Outer appearances are deceptive and many never understand that. It isn’t the posts or stories on social media that prove they are loved or not. It is the behaviour which says if they are loved or not. Relationships must be made from heart to heart and not post to post.

I do not mean that social networking is the only reason of our estrangement from the social world,but it falls among the main reasons.

People categorise their fellow beings and decide who to move with and not to move with.For example, silent people are considered as boring and talkative are considered as unbearable.One should also look for the other side of the coin.People who are silent may have a very good knowledge of skill and efficiency.Isn’t it? Haven’t we heard a proverb -“Empty vessels make more noise.”

I would even say that no individual should experience the feeling of being unloved. If people hurt you, talk about it infront of their face rather than to keep it within your heart building hatred against them. If you express your pain, they might ask for forgiveness.

Where I would say that we would become unloved is ,when you are going on a wrong track and there is no one to correct to, when you feel sad and there is no one to be with you and when you have no one to share your happiness.

No soul on this earth is a bad one and everyone needs care and affection. Let us show some care towards others and I am sure we will be loved back.