Right Time To Have A Boyfriend/Girlfriend.

Friends are very crucial in our life. Isn't it ? Yesterday only I told my mother about one of my boy-friends.And believe me she looked at me as if I commited a crime saying him a "friend". Don't we had boy-friends/girl-friends when we were kids of 3 - 7 ages? Yess, ofcourse we had. But now people are giving a new meaning to this term "Friend". Friend doesnot mean you have to get physical with them . This is something which my mom must have thought of. This concept is into our society where body is everything.

If I talk about 'relationships', people now think it as body based relationships. Don't we have relationship with our friends and parents ? Don't we? If I say "he is my Boyfriend " or I have a relation with him, people will take it in a different manner. Most Importantly the concept of body must be removed from relationships.Because that is a different thing to happen.However, there are relations deeper than body relations.We can have intimate relations with thousands number of people.By Intimacy I mean when one's life energy echoes in others life energy not the other way round. Do frienships at that level.

When we are in this modern educated era ,our atmost focus should be on how to grow ourselves to the best possible place within ourselves. People should not be in a hurry to live things too early in their age which are not necessary. This concept can be manifested in plants. Like after 10 -13 months of planting mango saplings, flower buds happens to grow.So the farmer removes those flowers.Why? Because if he lets it grow, it will bear fruits.We see those plants who bear fruits so early doesnot grow into a full fledge tree. And those plants who are not allowed tofruit up early will become full blown fruitful tree. Every thing has a right time, let that time come.

People have made a trend of making a boyfriend/girlfriend when they are in colleges/schools which in someway hijacks our intelligence level. Because at that stage students have the highest level of energy.If they create a certain balance and focus within themselves,then that energy can be transformed into something astonishing.So workhard to achieve your goal and make yourself high enough ,don't be in a hurry to live , try to be a full blown up tree not a plant.