ALL BODIES ARE BEAUTIFUL!!
“Decrease your weight, you do not look”, “no one would like you”, “ you are too thin”,are the common words heard by almost everyone in the society. But why the society, the thing that decides, how you would look better?Shouldn’t that be you, yourself. Who has given the “so”-“ called”-“ well wishers” of ours the right to judge that whether we look beautiful or not. Isit always the outer appearance that matters and if yes, then why do we study and what about the talent one posses?
Even, in the commercials shown on a TV show,there is a model shown , who is dark in color and loses almost every chance in life due to her dark complexion and all of a sudden she meets a friend of her,who gives her this “so”-“ called”- “magical cream “or” body builder” or “weight losing thing” and the very next moment, she wins in every field , where she used to lose. She becomessuccessful due to her change in appearance . But is it the actual truth. Is it the real world or is it just a myth made by the reel world? Of course, it is just a myth. But much to surprise , people start believing to these facts and start hating themselves, cursing them for not taking care of them.
Physical appearance matters nowhere,it is your internal beauty that does, your talents that makes you reach a new height in whatever field you are thinking to be in. It is even observed that the dark colored people or the short heighted ones, hide themselves from the society and even mask up their other talents, just because they think they are not presentable in front of people . But, trust me, if you would keep your hesitation aside and try to do whatever you really Want to do by heart,no any complexion or height or any obstacle could come in your way. It is only you and your fear of becoming a joke in front of people, are the obstacles in the path of your success. Notice the next time, when someone else makes you feel down, you would find that he is just applying a tactic to make you out of the competitionin which he is afraid of, in being with you. I know that is hard to believe , but most of the times, this is the reality. This is the work of society to speak whatever rubbish, they want to, but why is it, that we get affected so much? Just think, who is at harm at this, are they being in harm? Why we lower down our self esteem for them,who do not even matter in our lives?
The choice is yours, either prove the societyright, by masking yourself under the taboo created by thesociety or by making a new example for the society to adoreat. It is you only who could change the mindset of people around and most importantly who would change your thinking about self set too.It is you who has to decide that ,do you want to be also drawn in the so called “river “-“of”- “taboo” of being dark and unlovely. Be confident and love yourself and then you would could yourself see the actual hero present in you.
YOU DO NOT ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR BODY BY TELLING THEM TO HATE IT