Whatever It Takes!

I have used this catchy avengers title as i think the younsters that I want the attention of might give it a read because of the Marvel Series, Avengers. What I want to convey through this is the very meaning of life for me.

We all have been or will be in situations where we are in search of alternatives that could lead us to a well versed being. But unfortunately, we are unable to. It's not a rocket science hidden in that. Rather, getting into trouble is the most genuine thing that we can share with. It is just that we don't accept the fact that it is genuine. Missile Man Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam when said that "Suffering is the essence of success", we read it forgo it. It is something that we need to deeply imbibe in us. That is the root cause of the mental panic, hypertension and anxiety that we suffer from. We can always cheer ourselves up in the moments of happiness because we very well digest the fact that it is the part of life, then why can't we smile in the moments of failure. I would certainly not be unrealistic and only talk about it the way I am. I would suggest some points that I have found useful in getting good at this art.

It is always beneficial to set small targets to remain cool headed. For example, for a teen, he can set a target into his mind that he would not be much affected by the result once he has given his exam with full preparation. This is because that would only turn him down in case the results are unfavourable. Such short term goals can be set and accomplished. Only after completing one goal, should the next one be set.

That is one way, we can take our mindset to the state of total acceptance. Acceptance rate is something that we need to improve for getting to enjoy even the failures. Not that, all people fall prey to this type of unhappiness. People have started to get used to failures but still, when we read the newspapers on daily basis, the suicides number seems to be never coming down. These suicides have been surveyed by many people and have come to the conclusion that about 70% of these are youngsters falling prey to hypertension and depression related to their careers.

Now this is where we can work upon. If we feel that we are quite settled and that now we do not suffer from any of these anxieties, hypertensions etc. we should go out for help. And it is not at all very much laborious. In fact we can contribute to this cause, even digitally. For example, what you are reading is a contribution from my side to the people who are prey to these. Blog your thoughts out, write writups on them, publisize it to the fullest. We have available many platforms that give us this oppurtunity to spread happiness in our own way by writing them up here. Wrytin has got a massive audience,we can always post our thoughts here which we think can in any way help even a singly person.

Happiness is not ready anywhere, you have to always dig it out from your own field. Make the failures count in your preparation for the final delivery. Life never stops throwing oppurtunities at you, you can grasp it anytime, no matyter the age, no matter the constraints, it is all about being ready for it and challenge life for the next one. So bring it in yourself that you have got to fight it out till the end and win it for yourself, WHATEVER IT TAKES!