Things does not always go the way you like them to go they won't be simple as
“Try try try and you won't fail”
Or
“Love is achievable of you have the will to”
Or
“Step through everything eventually life will fall upon you”
Things likes these are good to the ears because our self-esteem gets the better of us all the time because of which we fail to acknowledge the fact that “life is not a remote controlled game, you are the auto-selected opponent the computer” which won't let you play by your rules; yes it has levels
Easy at the time you progress the time when you are unable to lift yourself up when you have to live the lives in the arms of your loved once.
Then you get to the stage where you are certainly conscious of the thought people have about you, you know everything they say about you get to know what their true nature are what and for those who are willing to do something in their life this is the stage where they start making plans, plans on how their future should be they either plan to have a better future than their current present or feels comfortable in having their good present be their good future
The next stage comes with the most hideous gameplays since you know who is wrong and you know who is worth your attention but you wont play the part you need to you’ll focus on levels but will forget the way back to it, you’ll try to beat the boss but you will lose your teammates before you do it
Then after all the shedding and the losses you come to a point where you are at the top and realise that you shouldn’t have been playing this game at all you realise that this game was never worth achieving the goal.
Just like someone said,
“Sometimes it's not worth following what you feel is good for you maybe that's not what destiny have for you in mind”
Or
“Destiny is not a game you can win its a dream you have to achieve”
Or
“If you play by the rules of your playbook you are sure to lose so either give up on life or give everything to it”
It‘s easy to give up on things so you rather give up on people it’s better to lose them than to keep a memory of them, even though that memory might tear you appart