Surviving A Loser Lane

At times we work hard with all our sweat and blood but results don’t fall as expected. Losing, again and again, drenches all the energy and will. Here, getting boosted with courage, hope and strength is hard to accomplish but isn’t impossible to reach. Our mind gets traumatized repeatedly that we lose all the motivation to look forward and work accordingly. Winning does make the mind feel well relaxed making it replay the moment inside the head. Though the degree of self-respect and self-improvement is nailed but does this make someone a better human? This is questionable. Winning and losing are both parts of the run. Losing can be painful, shameful and disappointing and getting out of the sorrow of being a loser is demands enormous effort in the part of the bearer.

The whole scenario of losing a game, an examination or a mere argument, all these make one embarrassed about the thoughts the surroundings will be portraying about the individual. Well, this rejection is normal but one has to understand the circumstances that led to losing instead of keeping eye on the mocking birds. The feeling of self-guilt does seed in but one has to overcome the negativity and list the points that led to the failure. Self-assessment and analyzation help to combat the guilt and cultivates a sense of starting again instead of leaving and giving up.

Losing and winning is all just a perspective. Winning again and again does makes the one aggressively possessive towards accomplishment without even valuing the steps which led to the goal. Moreover, this seeds in selfishness and a constant sense of superiority and overconfidence makes the one underrate others. This arrogance makes the person cut off from the social circles as he seems busy basking in his own accomplishments.

At the time of misery, one is forced to go through the toughness of the lane. The constant pressure to thrive in the extremes helps the one discover his means and resources. This makes him work hard on the pressing issues by distinguishing them as minor or major and tackling them accordingly. One is sure to come out stronger and better as a professional or an individual.

The championship does mark the establishment of the decided goal but at the time losing helps to aid growth and survival. Life is not always sugar and roses but growing through the bitterness of the thorns has got the stronger story to hold on to as a genuine winner.