Losing friends over city shifting is sorrowful, but thanks to social media which rewires your access to your much-loved school group. Moreover, creating new groups or say connections with totally diverse or similar individuals isn't any long process chain. Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat and many more applications motioned for serving the homologous purpose hold enormous user domain. Establishment of socialism over the web is one of the major breakthroughs in the field of interactive communication. Yet do think for a while about how connected you feel holding a mere web on connection?
Come on let's face it, long chats, stories, and feeds though they paint the picture perfect within the frame but what about the life outside the frame which lies unsorted in most of the parts. Getting up with the cheerful face on camera smile doesn't equally hold the same. Oh! forced candid's bagging the notion of 'candid capture' is no more an exception which flawlessly serves a candid lie without fail. It's true to say 'the grass is always greener on the other side' as most of us are so captivated within the frame that we don't even get the second thought of stepping the world outside it.
Choosing social media to avoid awkward eye contact is comforting at first but gradually ends creating a low physical interface. Impatience and irritation seeds in while waiting for the former being, on the contrary, effective communication can be established talking over the desk. One is easy to fall prey of neglect and is likely to get dragged to major negativities like anxiety and over thinking. Lack of commitment in the relationships hewed over the web is common and signs of loneliness increase much more fold than seen in the physical alliance.
Searching for a world within the phone isn't fruitful as long as one fails to see the one which is around. Feeding merely on the media fabricates low focus and discipline. Apart from this one is subjected to frequent brainwashing, self-comparisons, and bullying. Life is easier, beautiful, interesting, funnier, smarter, having great of the circles to hover with, is more of the myth that is trusted every often. Moreover, the concept of the picture perfect is the very of cause of increasing discontent amongst the individuals. Falling in the favor of 'Halo Effect', these instances force an individual to live a life with more expectations and less of the living.
Jay Shetty, a motivational vlogger once quoted, '56% of us are so scared of missing a message, a text, a social media update, or an event that we are glued to our phones so much so that we check them over a hundred and fifty times a day'.
It is irrational to lead a life without the physical interface, neither it is supportive or budding instead marks deep downfall crippling credibility and reliance. Going social without web ensures genuine networking. Hence, a reality check is a must as it cultivates a healthy relationship with self as well as community aiding the way to a better life.