Attachments

What are Attachments?
Which you are really fond of, fond of someone or something.
What does it mean to be fond of a person?
To like someone very much, especially when you have known that person for a long period of time and you almost feel love for them.

Talking about me, I used to hate to be emotionally attached.
There are so many reasons why people like me, hate getting attached. One reason could be trust. Maybe there are some past incidents that are likely to cause a serious problem in future. People who used to trust earlier so much now don't even know the meaning of trust because we get scared that every single word that we say can be used against us by the people who mean a lot to us. so we get afraid to get attached and share everything with the people we love. Another reason could be getting hurt as I said above when people you are attached to break your trust then obviously you will get hurt and trust me it take a long process to heal your broken heart. Everyone isn't that lucky to get genuine people by their side to help them always. It's YOU only YOU who can help yourself. once I got so hurt that I just started to hate being around people due to which I got low self esteem that forced me to thought that I am wasting everyone's time therefore prefer to be alone and developed hate towards attachments. But I was wrong after giving time and space to myself I came back to life with positive attitude. I was strong and smart enough to fight against this and has a comeback to advise. What I have learnt from past few years is to FLOW- flow with everything. Everything happens for a reason give chance, take risk and forgive the ones who hurt you, learn to move on. People come and go in your life. Some give you good memories to cherish forever and some gives life experiences that teaches you a lesson. The only one who stays is you. show the most important thing is to make yourself happy. Make yourself your first priority. You're the one living this life,so you should appreciate all you have in your life and try to make it worth everything.

I have heard one quotation which explains everything- EVERYONE THAT'S BEEN IN YOUR LIFE HAS BEEN THERE FOR A REASON TO TEACH YOU, TO LOVE YOU, TO EXPERIENCE LIFE WITH YOU.

BE AS HAPPY AS YOU CAN FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN.