Basic - A Psychological Approach

Basic: The fundamental defination to any term.

Our protocol reaction to any situation.

Why basic? Because I think people who live in extremes dont really have any 'Basic', or anything which they can define as basic. Cause whatever they experience, they go through the extreme part of it. Extreme happiness, extreme sorrow and other extreme emotions. If there is a will to live, it will be the strongest or just the same existing philosophy, extreme pain or the purest anger with no conditions. It makes their heart pound and palm sweat.I can say because I go through that many a times, well almost everytime. We Imagine things which are impossible in real life but looks like a theme park of various attractions in the mind over the top. I guess some of us love it too. I have heard a lot of my friends recommending me to relax in life. Thats exactly what I am looking forward too. But now I think, I like this way better. When someone goes through the process where they find everything amusing. When the excitement and anxiety are boiling rigorously, this makes the person go wild inside their head, then after a point of time, they start liking it. Living in the extremes is just like living on the edge but the only difference is, its not intentional. Our mind works as a great procastinator in such things. Even if everything seems fine, and the thought of 'what could possibly happen after this' is coming your way, you may have to rethink about it. I personally believe we all are living in the extremes. Well some would say that's just an excuse for people who are scared and stressed. My question is who is not. If you are scared enough to do a task then that showsyour concern regarding the task and yourself and the amount of precaution you are going to take for it.Sometimes being scared is about being cautious.

During the last semester I had many good, bad, average, worst kind of experiences and maybe in future I will mould them up and share it over here. One of my friend told about how we end up hating people and judging them for no reason. He said, its not always what we think, happens with others too. Its not always Me and You. He talked sense and I thought about it. We usually come across many people in our life, except for a few weird species with whom we correlate to, what else does each of them have in common apart from the fact that they are living a life, like we are? They might have the same job but different seals on it. They might have same names but different identities. All in all, everyone's different. The only thing common in all of us is that we have the most untrue perception about others. The most fallacious thinking. We do cry over the fact that we are hurt, abondoned and betrayed by different people around us. People we knew, people we cared about. However, the very trick the smartest devil pulls is that it makes us believe in that thinking. Yes, our mind fails to realise the fact that 'we', in most of the cases doesn't mean 'me and you', it basically translates to 'me and an unwanted mirage created by our mind'. This is the most common discovery in humanly behaviour. Either we create a extra positive mirage or a negative image of a person on an extreme level that this idea virtually clouds the unheard, unseen reality within. Not just for other people, seldom we do it for us too. Have you tried asking yourself the questions I have been asking ? whether just by judging yourself, either you are way too positive about yourself, or you have just kept yourself in a negative frame desinged by the mind. Yes, it's the mind. The human mind is beyond our senses, imagination and innovation. It can sense more than we can even think of, and see the irony, we think because our mind tells us to. It posseses the ability to conquer the thoughts anytime. It is a filter where the ultimate outcome depends on itself. But it is just as weak as a twig in front of reality. If we take the control of how we want to think and what we want to suppress within the deepest and darkest part of our unanswered thoughts. It can only dominate in front of a fictitious universe which it builds inside us. It is a false emperor in its very own deceased kingdom. It is a mere clueless pet in the face of reality.