International Day Of Happiness

• International Day of happiness (20th march),as they call this day officially. I didn't know actually that we even need a day to celebrate happiness. As a child ,I always used to think it takes nothing to be happy and just smile and that's it,your work of being happy is done. But as we grow up,things change ,we realise that life isn't a fantasy and we are not in a lala land .As a child we have many desires, different ones,but the most common I have heard of is I want to grow up . We have the plans ,we will grow up ,become like some celebrity or someone from our own family. But as the process begins ,we realise that all we used to think isn't that easy.

Failures, criticism, heartbreaks ,we face all of these. There's always a point of time in our life where we don't want anything but just happiness,some peace and that's it. Those desires of growing up ,being independent,all fade away. Although it's not the thing that we haven't been told that being grown up is not easy ,we are also told about what problems we are going to face. But as the human nature is,we think we are smarter and handle things easily ,we are the #newgeneration. We have cool friends, we have smartphones and yes the super smart Google,how will we fall in trouble,but trust me when the bad time comes all this vanishes like it was never there. We don't share our mistakes with our parents as the fear of getting scolded always holds the truth inside us and then the only option we have is our friends. We all do it, and here's the time when the things which we should have kept private to our family ,we say them to people who are mostly not interested in any of our sufferings but still listen to them because at the end of the day,at they want is spice and gossips.

We realise this thing too late in our life and from here we get the true people in our life ,we have the ability to recognise who is better for us and who is not ,then the journey to true happiness begins. We are able to find it eventually,not in some big job,not in money but inside us ,the inner peace. And when we know its only oneself who can keep us happy ,why to go to others to search for happiness. Nobody can keep you happy unless you choose to be . Get this thing straight in your mind NOBODY IN THIS WORLD HAS COME TO LIVE HIS/HER LIFE FOR YOU,YOU HAVE THIS OPPORTUNITY,SO STOP EXPECTING THAT SOMEONE ELSE WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY,ITS YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY. Understand this simple thing and then life will be much easier than it always was.