We all think that life would have been happier only if certain things were different. It always feels like everyone else is enjoying life more than you. The truth is that our mind believes whatever we cater it. If we serve it jealousy, negativity, and doubt then it will thrive on that on the other hand if you serve it positivity, humor and hope then it will respond in kind.
Reprogramming your thinking patterns not a one step process , you have to walk many for this change. But in this way you will find a lot more ways to a be little more happy. Making the most out of your life is actually your responsibility.
There are ways in which you can enjoy your life a little more .you can take the first step by asking yourself – What is that one thing you can start doing or stop doing thatwould have the biggest impact on my life?
Pick one thing that bothers you the most an then take atangible action to change it. Work on it for some days or months and you will notice progress.
When you are ready to omit those things which bother you , now you must be clear about what you want in your life. A part of enjoying life is to know what you actually want because happiness is often the difference between expectations and reality . When you know what you want in your life , now you have to make time for yourself . You have to utilise this time to accomplish your goals. A little space for yourself is crucial to life.
Being busy is trendy now. We go around bragging how busy we are in our lives but instead of this if we try to slow down and relax we will be happier. Please give yourself time to relax . Frazzled will not look good in you. In this free time you can try writing , you can practice your hobbies and can explore new places. This will open your mind and will embrace new possibilities toyou.
I know reading newspapers and watching news on TV are good habits but you are not a superman that you have to go and save the world. You can avoid disastrous news that makes you sad sometimes.
The most important thing is that if you want to lead an enjoyable life you will find your way through it.
Good Luck for your life. Hope you will be a bit more happy from today.