Life Is Too Short To Hold Grudges

Life is complicated, let's stop oversimplifying it.
1. No one is going to fix you. It's the oldest story in the world of how one person magically comes and saves you. How do I tell you this that there is no escape of your suffering? There is no super hero, this is your own story and someone else cradling your problems in their arms is fascinating but this dependance and vulnerability makes you so weak and when the person leaves you are left with nothing? I want you to take help and love but when you keep your existence on other person this story turns into a tragedy. Wear your armour and fight this you are going to make it.

2. The world is full of suffering. Somewhere in the oldage home a lady waits for her martyred son to come back home. She collects pebbles in a jar to show him the number of times she has missed him. Alzheimer' s gives you the ability to forget but what if you remember someone you so badly want to forget. Somewhere someone is having their first kiss and somewhere someone is giving their last kiss to a dead boy.

It's all messed up timings and haywire (out of control ) destinies. Nothing is certain,literally nothing.

3. Heartbreak is not poetic. It's not a lesson in disguise. Its pain clawing at your inside andemptiness wanting you to be let free. It blatantly sucks. You are going to live with it though. Accept it and swallow it with your dose of medicine. Why bad things happen to good people is not a question? Longing last for a lifetime and so does regret. You will always miss them in ways your heart didn't prepare you.

4. You can't change other people, and you can't make them stay. No amount of beginning, pleasing or prayers is going to make them stay. People always leave and when they return ,they are never really the same. You trying to change them to be who they were or who they should be ,never helps.

5. Whenever you're worried about what other will think of you, you're really just worried about what you will think of you. This image you have in mind of who you should be sometimes will haunt you.

6. Every passing person on the street has a story every bit as sad and complicated as yours. This is not a green grass pastor, life is drought everywhere.

No one has it better or worse we are all caught up in a game none of us wanted to play, stuck in different levels. So try to be a little more compassionate and kind.