To tell you the real reason behind I believe in this quote so deeply ,I will like to share a short story with you guys.Toh bina samay gavay let's get started.
Just about every time my dad and I would get together with a certain couple at our house, the conversation would turn to "working wives". Mrs. S. had worked several years before her marriage and she had genuinely liked it.
"But now," she'd say," I've got 2 youngsters in school,a home to manage and meals to prepare. I simply haven't got time."
Then one Sunday evening,Mr. and Mrs.S. and children were in an automobile accident. Mr. and Mrs.S. and the youngsters escaped seriousinjurybut Mrs.Sreceived a back injury that left him permanently disabled.Now Mrs.S. had no choice but to go to work.
When we saw her several months after the accident, we were amazed to find how well she had adjusted to her new responsibilities.
"You know." she said ,"six months ago I never dreamed I could possibly manage the house and work full time. But after the accident,I just made up my mind that I had to find the time. Believe me,my efficiency has gone up 100 percent. I discovered a lot of things I was doing didn't need to be done at all. Then I discovered that the children could and wanted to help. I found dozens of ways to conserve time- fewer trips to the store, less TV,less telephoning, less of those time-killers."
This lesson taught me a lesson that,Capacity is indeed a state of mind. How much we can o depends on how much we think we can do.When you really believe you can do more,your mind thinks creatively and shows you the way.