Confident Decision Making

Decision and confidence play a great game together. They are dependent on each other. They are actually directly proportional, to be clear, a decision is only valid to be a decision, only if taken with confidence. Earlier, people were not allowed to take up their own decisions. It was only the role of the elders who had the chance of decision making. The role of the children was only to listen and ammend to it. They were not given a chance to question back or ask for reasons or causes.

There needs to be a great change. People must be allowed to take up their decisions( provided they take guidance and supervision from their elders). Explaining and discussing their decision and point of views with their elders can also help. Parents of this generation need to know the importance of setting up their child for the outside world and increasing competitions. In that manner, the child would become more confident and would know how far his/her decisions are appropriate. May be sometimes parents may not agree to whatever you ask for. It could be our decision about our career, life partner, job, further studies, and many others. It can be taken as a test for your confidence. If you are really confident on whatever you have decided, then you have to set all your guts out and fight back about your decision. Fighting doesnot literally mean that you punch or hit back, it is a procedure in which you tell or explain how interested and how confident you are about that particular matter.

There would be many who would try to influence you and turn over your decision to a negative route. But it all depends on how you handle that issue. You need to know what is good and what is not, and decide appropriately. That is when our maturity and confidence builds up. Various experiences teach us to be more mature and confident. Confident decision making is very important and is a key to success. Fighting for your decisions and working hard on making them come true, brings us great happiness and delight.

So to conclude, make your own decision, provided they are made with confidence and not with anxiety, or anger. Decide upon something confidently and see how happy you would feel at the end. Decide heartfully, and work your guts out in fulfilling it. THINK TWICE BEFORE DECISING UPON ANYTHING. IF MADE, MAKE IT CONFIDENTLY.

THANK YOU..!!!

Dont make a permanent decision for your temporary emotion.