The Problem With Growing Up

I had a very wrong notion about growing up and entering into youth ,I thought it was about exploring places ,things ,people etc it was about success career and everything which required a certain kind of obsession but today if you go to a public party 70%-80% people are inebriated, you go to a private party almost everyone is drunk / smoking or getting in the process to be one the parties have just reduced to everyone getting a can of beer sitting in the corner having a puffof cigarette or hookah and look at the audacity they offer you to join in in the lure and guise of having fun and being cool ,In the morning they want beer as their throats are parched and the inttelectuals are even worse they drink wine day or night , people go to hill station and all I hear is how great the MAAL is that it has to offer I mean you're standing on a freaking hill how high do you want to get , it seems like there could not be a social gathering without a drink or a smoke and even the conversations is all about some local gossip or some girl there is no talk on history , politics , science or some new idea I don't want to sound like some old uncle questioning the moral fibre of our generation nor this post is about whether drinking or smoking is right or wrong ( although I think smoking is extremely stupid ) it's just sad how so many people where ever I meet and their life's are getting dependent on chemicles there's nothing new the same old rubbish regurgitating. Its pathetic how you to have to search for a person to have a decent one to one chat without the other person being intoxicated or discussing some bullshit .

I again repeat that this post is not about whether drinking or smoking is right or wrong but about the banality of the whole process