‌Virginity , something we aren't assured of when it comes to men but for a women, HER VIRGINITY IS HER PRIDE, whether she is a virgin or not decided if she is sensible , respectable or not. If she uses abusing words,if she wears short clothes,if she talks to boys ,our society says she wasn't raised well. And shockingly this is not only the mentality of older generation but many people of our same age also judge us by the way we dress up or with the people we hang out with.

Guess what,my timing of coming back home doesn't decide what kind of work I do , my dressing sense doesn't decide if I was raised well or not and my virginity can never be the criteria if I can be respected or not. Yes,there might be the case that I lost my virginity to a fuckboy but this doesn't tell that I was too desperate to have sex, it just says we had sex, nothing about my character, nothing about my reputation,just nothing. Maybe I had found that relationship too true that I was ready for it. I decided to do it to myself,I didn't do anything which was social loss ,then why society is so worried about it. If I'm wearing short clothes and you think I won't be safe in these, why don't you work on making this society a better place to live in rather than telling me to change my clothes. Even if I wear clothes that don't match your mentality,even if I walk with boys whom you don't find good, atleast I don't judge people by their dresses and virginity.

You never know ,what has happened in someone's life,making guesses and judging is easy but being at someone's place and to feel what we feel ,what a girl goes through is difficult. Going through periods , giving birth to babies,raising kids and still being judged for our every action, it isn't easy man! Not at all!! Losing about 29 Lof blood and still worrying about period stain and doing all this just to give birth to humans who are still going to judge us anyway ,it isn't easy at all,it takes a lot ,way more than you can ever think. And even after this much judgment what we do alone in our bedrooms, if we are virgins or not ,it also becomes a social issue for the society. Don't you think ,just letting us live peacefully will do no harm to the world. We don't even ask for respect ,just live us the way we want to.After all what's the point of being born as humans if you can't even treat others as one!

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Profile of Prangya Sarangi
Prangya Sarangi  •  5y  •  Reply
So true....I agree
Profile of Ritika
Ritika  •  5y  •  Reply
its lit di <3
Profile of Manthan Pawar
Manthan Pawar  •  5y  •  Reply
So true